LET'S HEAR IT FOR MOTHER NATURE!

Friday, November 30, 2007

Look! We are getting rain! Take THAT fire gods. The only bad thing is that our back yard has no drainage and no plants... so it is a giant mud farm. Becca = happy. Dogs = no way we are peeing out there man. Don = driven to drink.

WHAT IS ON SARAH'S MIND?

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

YOU'LL NEVER KNOW IF YOU DON'T GO

Saturday, November 24, 2007

Well I am terribly late with this, but here it is... our Hawaii trip.

It was wonderful to be together as a family and just relax. I think all in all, we didn't find Hawaii all that jaw-dropping. Quite possibly because we LIVE in a place that looks like a tropical paradise. The strongest memory I have of the Big Island of Hawaii is that in this teeny little island were so many different landscapes. Stark desolate lava fields, tropical rainforests with immense waterfalls, inexplicable petroglyph graffiti mounds, mountainous ranches, vivid underwater fish playgrounds, blue collar neighborhoods, lush manicured resorts. You can see all these in just a day.

For all the buildup Hawaii received, I think San Diego is more beautiful. But as the philosophers of Smash Mouth say, you'll never know if you don't go. So it was a more-than-worthy adventure.


Music: All Star by Smash Mouth

HAPPY HAPPY

Thursday, November 22, 2007


Happy Thanksgiving! We’re spending Thanksgiving in Idyllwild, a mountain community of cute cabins, shops, and hiking trails. We rented a cabin and a half mile away, my friend Laura and her family have one too.

I guess 31 million Americans got in their cars yesterday to go someplace. 2.5 of them are in California. We all apparently left our garages at 1:30 p.m. It took us 3.5 hours to go less than 100 miles. It took Laura 7 hours to go 130 miles. We are just grateful to not be in the car at this point.

I bought so much food at Costco that we had to drive 2 cars. Why? I don’t know. Just got all caught up in the Costco thing. After you’re been there a half hour, 50 count individual bags of potato chips doesn’t seem unreasonable.

And with Oakley gone, Gizmos is becoming one very spoiled onlycat. He is loving it. He’s here at the cabin with us, after having proved himself a pretty laid back traveler during the fires.

I’m thankful today that we’re here together, experiencing yet another part of this planet. That we have the wherewithal to go where we want, and the curiosity to keep exploring. We wish you a happy and a restful day.

DOWN FOR THE COUNT

Thursday, November 15, 2007


This week has not been pretty.

It started this weekend with our decision to put our dear cat, Oakley, to sleep. Oakley was 17. A couple months ago, we noticed Oakley was looking rather svelte. This was unusual for Oakley, whose trucker-like girth caused him to waddle around most of his life. The vet told us he was in the early stages of kidney failure. So we've been pampering Oakley, giving him lots of love and extra treats.

But on Sunday, Oakley just wasn't getting up. He wasn't interested in eating. He was looking a lot worse. So we did the hardest thing.

The kids were quite upset about it. Becca is more in the zone of "where is heaven? what is heaven? is Oakley in heaven? can I see him?" Sarah cried and cried, because the cat slept with her and was her little buddy.

So when it came time for the vet to ask me what I'd like to do with Oakley's remains, I decided to have Oakley's remains returned to us so we could have a burial. Check out:

Well, they returned the ashes to me in a beautiful cedar box with a tiny lock, and Oakley's name on a little metal heart. And they gave me a list of pet grieving Websites, which is a little much. But here is the weird part. They also made me one of these:
It kind of ooked me out a little bit. Because that means they had to take the dead cat's paw and make this little keepsake! The doe-eyed receptionist, who was trying to extend her sympathies, was a little startled when I expressed my surprise over this concept. "It usually soothes people," she said. Apparently we are supposed to use it as a headstone. Oy. I hadn't planned on a stone dedication AND a burial.

Right around the time we put Oakley down, Becca started to feel woozy and sneezy. Now both kids have colds. Sarah came home early from school yesterday, and stayed home today. And now... I am feeling spacey and chilly. NO - I AM NOT GETTING SICK. Power of positive thinking....

These things usually come in 3s. So today on the playground, when some older kids were teasing Becca, she let 'em have it. Escaping teatime with the principal by a hair. Sigh. Well. Maybe next week will be better.

SUGAR CANE SWEET

Thursday, November 08, 2007

Here's a little sumthin' Becca picked up in Hawaii. Along with the world's smallest pair of coconuts, here's a little hula hula.

(Oh Lord, don't let her grow up to be a pole dancer...)

Music: Pineapple Princess by Na Leo

DANG

Wednesday, November 07, 2007

2 years ago today, I started my job at NYCA!

IT'S DA SWEATER

Tuesday, November 06, 2007

So I got a sweatshirt in Hawaii because I forgot I might need one while horseback riding. We went to Wal-Mart and I got something from the junior's department that kind of looks like this, but red and more croppy.

I wore it again today. I kind of like it.

When Don saw me he said, "are you going to work in that?"

When Becca saw me she said, "cool, Mommy!"

When Sarah saw me she said, "oh my GOD are you kidding. You can't leave the house in that. PLEASE don't tell me you're coming to school with me this morning...."

I have to admit, the sweatshirt did give me some sort of bad-ass hip hop power. I said yo yo baby and peace out, dawg. I was hecka bootsy. I looked like I was their older sister.

"Mom. I am begging you. Go home and change," Sarah said to me at her classroom door.

"C U, BFF," I told her. Several of her male classmates marveled at me. Sarah rolled her eyes and explained to them that I had lost my mind.

Then I went to work. My partner thought I looked cool (thanks, Michael). I guess advertising people are mentally around Becca's age. Clearly, the sweatshirt has magical powers of youthfulness. I will have to handle with care.

IN THE WAKE OF THE FIRES

Friday, November 02, 2007

Now that I can bear to do it, here's a video and photo compilation from our experience in the San Diego fires. Turn up the speakers...


Music: In My Life, The Beatles